Really good post! Totally agree as I put myself the same question as I consider myself fit and have unhealthy fat friends that I sometimes never know how to approach them to help them. I think the line between accepting body as it was ( bigger or smaller waist , bigger or smaller breast, etc) is being confused with accepting overweight issues. In my opinion is my duty to try to help people in overweight situation as it is to stop smoking. But of course people need to want help.